My girlfriend and people on social media are always talking about abusers. I listen to these stories and think… how much free time do these people have? Because to be an abuser, you actually have to work for it. You have to watch her all the time, manipulate, control things… that’s basically a full-time job. And at some point I realized a simple thing… sometimes, to be the perfect boyfriend, all you have to do is… absolutely nothing.

Author and Performer:
Evgeny Zamotaev

People involved in the video:
Shams Sharapov
Vitaly Golyshev
Stas Akchyurin
Alexander Kurmanov
Elena Chernysheva
Ilya Tonkikh

Music:
Misha Zeifert

00:31 — I’m from Mordovia
01:10 — I graduated from the “proper” MSU
03:36 — a guy who got beaten up over a roulade
05:25 — a barista with a gatekeeper complex
07:45 — the longer you date a girl, the shorter your massages get
10:02 — my girlfriend’s ex was an abuser
11:08 — the older the girl, the harder it is to “abuse” her
13:00 — I’m not an abuser — that’s a lot of work
14:57 — women become abusers with age: how I dated a girl 6 years older than me
16:37 — I’m a red flag because I wear a backpack